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Hard-Core Romance: Fifty Shades of Grey, Best-Sellers, and Society, by Eva Illouz

Laura Frost on the needs met by an erotic best-seller

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June 19, 2014
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Fifty Shades of Grey. The mere mention of E. L. James鈥 blockbuster is enough to make many people roll their eyes. (Those who have actually read the book and its sequels know what happens to people who roll their eyes in James鈥 erotic universe. They get spanked. Hard.) Disparaged as a symptom of cultural decline and a backlash against feminism at the same time as it has been relished by millions, the Fifty Shades series still can鈥檛 get any respect.

Sociologist Eva Illouz aims to change that. Hard-Core Romance sets out to explain why women in our ostensibly enlightened era are drawn in droves to tales of erotic domination. In a terse 81 pages, she argues that the Fifty Shades trilogy is a window on to our culture and, moreover, a 鈥渢oolkit鈥 for these confused times. Specifically, the novels address the anxieties of the gender-equality struggle by offering women weary of negotiating roles and trying to achieve autonomy a fantasy of submission to a protective, 鈥渇eudal鈥 masculinity.

And the sex? Building on the widely reported uptick in sex toy sales correlating with the publication of Fifty Shades, Illouz proposes that the trilogy 鈥渇unctions as a self-help sexual manual鈥or a better sexual and romantic life鈥. Illouz contends that BDSM (bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism) is 鈥渁 romantic utopia鈥, a 鈥渂rilliant fantasy solution to the volatility of romantic relationships, precisely because it is an immanent ritual grounded in a hedonic definition of the subject, providing certainty on roles, pain, the control of pain, and the limits of consent鈥. In sum, Christian Grey, with his nipple clamps and big鈥ank account, offers an escape from feminist freedom.

Now, all of this is compellingly audacious. It nicely undercuts the idea that women鈥檚 romance/erotica is meaningless pabulum. It also dovetails with a 2013 Journal of Sexual Medicine study proposing that practitioners of BDSM are 鈥渓ess neurotic鈥 than those with less exotic proclivities. But does buying ben-wa balls or a blindfold really make one a member of the 鈥淏DSM community鈥, as Illouz assumes? And how does the interpretation of Fifty Shades as a Kama Sutra crossed with The Rules square with James鈥 actual narrative, which Illouz hardly references at all? Sidelining the fantasy elements of the novels, Illouz argues that reading Fifty Shades is 鈥渁 supreme act of modern selfhood鈥, a gesture of 鈥渟elf-empowerment and self-improvement鈥. As James鈥 wide-eyed heroine Anastasia Steele might say, Holy cow!

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Writing with bold but sometimes maddening economy, Illouz summarises complex matters such as the rise of the public sphere and the history of erotic literature faster than Christian Grey can cuff his sub to a spreader bar. Illouz鈥檚 stated goal is 鈥渢o understand how the intense reading pleasure [Fifty Shades] created resonates with the sociological structure of men and women鈥檚 relationships today鈥. However, she offers almost no empirical data about those pleasures, and in classifying Fifty Shades as self-help rather than erotica, Illouz minimises James鈥 obvious aim: arousal. Illouz asserts, for example, that 鈥Fifty Shades of Grey cannot be characterized as being simply and only mommy porn 鈥 unless one naively assumes that the romance is the 鈥榩retext鈥 to wrap the sex in the pink paper of sentiments. In fact, the opposite is the case: it is the sex that is the pink paper in which the love story is wrapped.鈥 Numerous internet postings guiding readers to the hottest sex scenes in the novels suggest otherwise. As Oprah Winfrey remarked in an interview about Fifty Shades, 鈥淚鈥檓 thinking, stop with the story, get to the juicy part.鈥

Illouz poses some valuable questions, such as 鈥淲hy have sexuality and desire proved to be such reluctant arenas for women鈥檚 equality?鈥 The success of the Fifty Shades trilogy suggests that eroticism thrives on repetition, stereotype and clich茅 as much as originality. In the realm of fantasy, the balance of sophistication and silliness may not coincide with our more considered judgement. Many 鈥 most? 鈥 Fifty Shades of Grey readers know it鈥檚 inane and implausible and that the prose is bad. But none of that interferes with their enjoyment of it and, indeed, those narrative shortcomings may well be part of the pleasure. We may want women to seek constructive solutions to life issues in their pleasure reading, but their choices don鈥檛 always support that theory. The truth hurts, baby.

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Hard-Core Romance: Fifty Shades of Grey, Best-Sellers, and Society

By Eva Illouz
University of Chicago Press, 104pp, 拢38.50 and 拢14.00
ISBN 9780226153414, 53698 and 53551 (e-book)
Published 22 May 2014

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