From a waiter working in Singapore to becoming a Harvard graduate
Don't think that Harvard is just for a certain group of elite students, writes one recent master's graduate from lower-middle class Singapore
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I recently graduated with a master鈥檚 degree from聽Harvard University. Throughout the entire week, countless speakers and dignitaries 鈥 including Mark Zuckerberg and John Kerry 鈥 told us that I (and my classmates) would be the future leaders of the world.
But just seven years ago, it did not seem likely that I could pursue a college degree, let alone a graduate degree at Harvard. Growing up, I had always scoffed at academics and their 鈥渆xpert advice鈥 because they often seemed so divorced from my reality.
But after spending time in the ivory tower, I have come to realise a simple truth: the ivory tower needs us more than we need it, and as a society we should use it to our advantage.聽
I grew up in Singapore, a tropical city-state famously known for having the world鈥檚 highest concentration of millionaires. My father used to have a million-dollar business, but that changed after the Asian financial crisis. Growing up in lower-middle class Singapore, buying a can of soda was a luxury, and we were often cash-strapped by the end of the week.
To help with the finances, I began working at the age of 12 as a part-time tutor. When I turned 14, I worked as a waiter at the Grand Hyatt hotel.聽聽
Working also meant long commuting hours and that nurtured a habit of reading. Living in a country that divides people into 鈥渟mart鈥 and 鈥渘ot smart鈥, I devoured Howard Gardner鈥檚聽Theory of Multiple Intelligences. He put into words what I always thought was an arbitrary determination of human ability: a 鈥渟mart鈥 person usually refers to nothing more than someone who did well on standardised testing. I emailed Professor Gardner to share with him his impact on me. To my surprise, he responded to my email, and even shared with me his thoughts on the Singaporean education system.
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His kind and prompt reply moved me. The fact that a professor from Harvard would reply to a query from an average Singaporean teenager planted a seed in my mind: maybe these experts were not as self-indulgent and divorced from reality as I previously thought.
I entertained the possibility of maybe, one day, applying to Harvard. But when I told my parents about this, they smiled. With a beaten tone and cracked voices, they said: "It doesn鈥檛 do any harm to try, just try your best.鈥澛
Neither of my parents had a college degree and no one in my extended family attended an Ivy League college. My parents knew it was important for their son to dream, but they also knew that the odds were incredibly slim.
As I applied to Harvard, two messages rang in my head: firstly that I鈥檒l never get in, and secondly that I knew my $75 application fee was going to go waste. But it didn't and I was accepted.
The idea of an elite institution being divorced from reality has been the message of this past year 鈥 popular majorities all around the world find themselves not 鈥渇itting in鈥 to the models and values espoused by supposed elites. I鈥檝e worked my socks off to get here, but I was suddenly accused of being a part of the elite, told that facts shouldn鈥檛 be trusted, and that expertise is shameful.
This sentiment was particularly stark on the morning of 9 November 2016, the day after the US presidential election. Many of my friends started posting on Facebook that 鈥淗arvard elites鈥 were to blame for the death of globalisation because their 鈥渆litist鈥 ideas forgot the middle class.
I am familiar with being distrustful of 鈥渆xperts鈥, but this time, I was part of the out-of-touch 鈥渆stablishment鈥.
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To my peers back home, I was now an out-of-touch scholar. However, in my classes I felt equally isolated: I was that Asian student who would raise questions at the Kennedy School Forum about the savior complex, interrogate colleagues who still insist that China is a communist country, and remind people that the Vietnam bombing is a political reality for people in my region, not just some political miscalculation from which we can easily move on.
However, among my fellow students we had many 鈥渓et鈥檚 grab a coffee, I want to learn more鈥 moments and I discovered that the core of a university鈥檚 work in creating globally aware and culturally sensitive changemakers lies in its students, not just its professors.
The ivory tower is not decrepit, old and archaic; it鈥檚 alive, its people are dynamic, and the communities represented here are diverse. Our duty is to use our academic learnings and newfound expertise to help mend the many problems in this troubled world. 聽
From a waiter working in Singapore to becoming a Harvard graduate, walking in those crimson robes on commencement day, I remembered the arguments and frustrations in a classroom where we all struggled to 鈥渇it in鈥. And as I walked among inspiring classmates who are doing their part to fix our broken world, I hope I鈥檒l be able translate my knowledge and skills into inspiring positive social change.
If there鈥檚 one lesson I took from Harvard, it is this: in the same way that we can possess expertise without claiming to be an expert, we can all be in an elite institution without being elitist.
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